這首歌講出不健康的關係,會成為經典,應該是它所傳達的正面意義。
通常,你先看到對方的脆弱,而生起了保護的衝動與愛。但如果她總是不能面對孤獨、不能癒療自己的苦痛,那她終究無法愛別人。愛既是美好正確的東西,那它就應該有著公平的本質。有人總是能包容你的脆弱、依賴,但那只是瞬間。如果妳真的有能力愛別人,為何不能愛自己?連自己都愛不了,表示妳其實沒有能力愛別人。
November Rain
Guns N’ Roses
發行年:1991
When I look into your eyes
(當我看著你的眼睛)
I can see a love restrained
(我看到幽禁的愛)
But darlin’ when I hold you
(當我抱著妳的時候)
Don’t you know I feel the same
(你知道我也有同樣的感覺嗎?)
Nothin’ lasts forever
(這世間沒有永恒)
And we both know hearts can change
(我們都知道,人心總是會變的)
And it’s hard to hold a candle In the cold November rain
(在十一月的風雨中,想拿住一支蠟燭都很難)
We’ve been through this such a long long time
(我們已經這樣好久了)
Just tryin’ to kill the pain, oo yeah
(你想要退散痛苦,哦耶!)
But love is always coming and love is always going
(愛來了,又走了)
And no one’s really sure who’s lettin’ go today
(也沒人知道,今天又是誰的錯)
Walking away
(走吧)
If we could take the time To lay it on the line
(如果你能讓時間停止)
I could rest my head
(我的腦子就能得到休息)
Just knowin’ that you were mine
(只需要知道,你仍然屬於我就好了)
All mine
(妳的一切都是我的)
So if you want to love me
(如果妳想愛我)
Then darlin’ don’t refrain
(那就不要克制自己)
Or I’ll just end up walkin’ In the cold November rain
(不然我就是自己在十一月的雨中散步)
Do you need some time on your own
(妳想要自己靜一靜嗎?)
Do you need some time all alone
(你想要完全的靜一靜嗎?)
Everybody needs some time On their own
(每個人都需要自己冷靜)
Don’t you know you need some time all alone
(妳不知道,獨處有時會讓人好一點嗎?)
I know it’s hard to keep an open heart
(把心打開很難)
When even friends seem out to harm you
(當妳完全沒有安全感的時候)
But if you could heal a broken heart
(如果妳沒辦法癒療自己?)
Wouldn’t time be out to charm you
(人生對妳還會有意義嗎?)
Sometimes I need some time on my Own
(有時候,我也很需要冷靜)
Sometimes I need some time all alone
(我需要獨處)
Everybody needs some time On their own
(每個人都要能接受孤獨)
Don’t you know you need some time all alone
(妳難道不知道嗎?)
And when your fears subside
(當妳恐懼一切沉澱的時候)
And shadows still remain, oh yeah
(陰影卻仍然籠罩著妳)
I know that you can love me
(我知道你能愛)
When there’s no one left to blame
(這並不是任何人的錯)
So never mind the darkness
(不用怕暗黑的一面)
We still can find a way
(這世界仍然有路)
‘Cause nothin’ lasts forever
(因為一切都會結束)
Even cold November rain
(就算是十一月的淒雨)
Don’t ya think that you need somebody
(妳不覺得自己需要別人嗎?)
Don’t ya think that you need someone
(妳不覺得自己需要別人嗎?)
Everybody needs somebody
(每個人都需要其他人)
You’re not the only one
(你不孤單)
You’re not the only one
(大家都是如此)
Don’t ya think that you need somebody
(妳不覺得自己需要別人嗎?)
Don’t ya think that you need someone
(妳不覺得自己需要男人嗎?)
Everybody needs somebody
(每個人都需要同伴…)
